A Date with Myself
When I got married (barely two and a half years ago), I got a new teaching job and my husband and I moved into our first home. My classes were early in the morning, but my husband leaves for work at high noon.
Ironically, I found myself eating alone more often than before, both in and out of the house. At first, it was kind of weird for me, but I am getting the hang of it. Here are some ways I learned to deal with it.
Dining in
- turn up the TV
- play your favorite music
- use your best dinnerware
- take your time and enjoy your date with yourself
Usually, when I eat at home alone, it’s just leftovers for me. Luckily, Epicurious has some recipes for single serving. I am planning on trying them out soon. Have you tried some of them? The Ice Cream with Chocolate Caramel Sauce looks really yummy.
Dining out
- eat at ‘off’ hours
- choose restaurants that have solo tables
- choose restaurants that serve food in solo portions
- insist on a good table with a nice view
- tip well
I keep myself occupied by reading or by watching people passing by. A number of suggestions are also found at Solo Dining. One thing is for sure: I get to know ‘me’ much better, now that I am comfortable with dining alone. How do you cope?
